First birthday cake for Dec

Last year for our friend Allison’s birthday I made her a Tardis cake

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I learned from this cake that the chocolate cake that I normally make is not good for stacking, but it did survive a 45 minute drive and being carried into two different restaurants. ( since we got the wrong place at first) So not too badly done and it seemed to make her very happy. 🙂

There was no way I was going to be able to out do last year, so I went with simpler. There is a game that a lot of our friends play called Ingress. (Which I highly recommend that you start playing, just make sure you pick the green team.) Since she really loves the game I decide to make the cake with the symbol for the green team on it.

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I think it kind of looked better before I filled it in, but ah well she loved it and it tasted great, so who cares right?

Santa

Santa was a big decision in our house. Chuck did not really want to do the whole Santa thing, but I did. We finally agreed to do the Santa thing but down play it a lot. So in our house, Santa comes and fills the stockings, eats the cookies and milk (the reindeer get a carrot) and he leaves each kid one book. I like this, it is not as much work for us, the kids are not as invested in a lie, I don’t have to try as hard to keep up the lie (which I suck at) and they learn that the rest of the gifts come from family and friends.
I will say that it has caused some interesting interactions with other kids recently. P meet Santa by chance at Home Depot the other day (I gave up pretty quick on the whole photo with Santa thing. If it happens by chance fine but I am not waiting on line for it.) Santa, of course, asked what she wanted for Christmas P told him that he only brings books everything else comes from her mom and dad. Luckily he laughed and played along. p on the other hand got into an argument with another 3 year old over whether or not Santa was magical. The other kids said he was p says he is not, that he is just some guy who brings books.
I don’t see a problem with these things and actually think that they were both very funny incidents. However, I told a couple people about these events and the answer from all of them were the same; that we were making it hard on the other parents and kids. I had to stop and think about that for a bit. We were making other parents jobs harder. We were ruining Santa and maybe Christmas for other kids. WOW. I don’t think I realized until recently how much everyone expects you to conform to how they see the world. I wonder what happens to kids who are raised that there is not a Santa. I know some Jewish families who tell their kids there is not a Santa but don’t tell the other kids it could ruin it for them. I have come to the conclusion that whereas I feel sorry for making things harder on other parents and their kids, that is not my circus and those are not my monkeys.
I would love to hear how some other families have done Santa.

We’re not that.

So, I’ve seen a few things advertised that are selling a similar idea to our international days.

Would I like to turn this idea into something marketable some day? Sure! But, we’re not that now.

I also see a lot of blogs where everything is perfect and orderly, photos look very professional, and not a thing is out of place. Yeah… we’re not that, either.

Well – maybe to do something like this, we have to be rich and buy a lot of weird ingredients! Nope. While some of the ingredients that we have used in recipes have been a bit difficult to find, nothing has been stupid expensive. Here’s one option, substitute ingredients. It may not be “authentic” or “rustic” or “perfect”, but it will be “good enough”.

If we just take a bit of time to learn about someone else’s culture or food, perhaps we’ll be less willing to accept propaganda designed to dehumanize.

It doesn’t take loads of resources to do this – you’re already using a web browser.

It doesn’t have to be perfect. We’re doing this with and for kids.

I guess where this random collection of sentences is leading is to this; it doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, it doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be sincere and as accurate as you can make it.

I have heard rumors that some other families want to do something like this, or maybe already have. I’d love to hear some stories.

Sources and Ideas

I’ve had a few thoughts about putting “International Day” out into the public for review and scrutiny. I wonder if we’re getting something about a country wrong. I wonder if someone from a country is going to call us out on it – maybe angrily.

We use mostly web resources to figure out some local foods and get a bit of information about a place. We haven’t gone very deep into governments, history, conflicts, or anything. The closest language study is basically the streaming media we’re able to pull up based on a 45 second Google search. I have started to explore using some of P’s school resources to make sure that we’re going close to age-appropriate for the topics we touch.

Mostly, the days have been food-centric, and with good reason. Everybody has to eat.

One idea I bounced around without actually discussing it with anyone was maybe trying to learn one word or phrase from the native/local language of the place we’re “visiting”. Maybe “bathroom”, “I love you”, or “Can I please go dancing at the library with a porpise, Officer?” This might be a bit over the top for now, but maybe we can work it in.

Keeping an entire day entertaining for 3 and 6 can be a challenge; it’s a challenge sometimes for me to stay interested. If we can just keep adding places around the world that they have heard about, I think that’s a pretty good foundation.

Slovakia Day

Today turned out great. The Ps and I started out the morning making kolacky for breakfast. We used some blueberry jam that my mom and I had canned a couple years ago. They were amazing and are definitely something we will be making again and again. The Ps would not even wait until they were cool to start eating. They just picked around the edges until they could shove them in their mouths. As we all sat and eat we talked over what it is like in Slovakia and the Ps learned what landlocked means.

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After breakfast we were joined by Shari and started coloring flags and got the Jablkovy Kolac done.  That was sooooo good.

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This was followed by the arrival of Chris and Misti,  which is when things really started to get moving. Everyone colored a flag today. p even drew what looks like an amoeba on the back of hers. P, not to be outdone, decorated all around her flag. Please forgive the spots; someone splashed food on them.

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The next couple hours were a blur of cutting, mixing, boiling, and baking. Chuck found us a random Slovakia radio station which played – of all things – Coldplay.

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The food was wonderful and I would love to eat it all again and I think everyone else would agree.

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After lunch we pulled up Google maps and got to take a look into some of the cities and drive though the streets. The girls noticed that the cars seem smaller than here in the states and wondered if Chuck or Chris would be able to fit in them. They also really loved seeing some of the pictures that people had posted. P announced that it looks a lot like here.
I am happy to say today was a success. I am sad to say that we will not be doing another International day until after the holidays, but don’t worry. January comes fast and we have decided to do Japan to start off the new year.

Also, I am hoping to do posts about the days we did before we had started this blog. Oh, and December is a big cake month for me and Chuck has said he is going to do a post or two. So there will be posts going up. I know you were worried. 🙂

Menu for Slovakia Day

As always the wonderful world wide web has provided me with some wonderful blogs and websites to help me get recipes that I hope are a good representation of Slovakia. So next Saturday we will be eating.

Breakfast:

Chream cheese kolacky

I am also hoping to find some Bryndza cheese for spending on bread. Maybe Wegmans has it.

 

Lunch/dinner:

vegetariansky Paprikas

Karboatky so syrom

stuffed tomato in bread crumbs

and

Jablkovy Kolac

 

Couple things I wanted to share

I am very excited about Halloween. We started working on Ps costume tonight. So far lots of boxes, duct tape and some red led lights. Anyone want to try and guess what my crazy 6 year old wants to be?

I also wanted to let everyone know that some of the things that we do for these International days stay with us. My kids will sometimes randomly tell people facts about places we have done. They will request to eat things we had on these days months later. One of these foods that have really stuck with me is the Labouyi Bannann (Plantain Porridge). I have been making a batch every couple weeks and then eating it for breakfast for the week.

California Day

A couple of people have asked why we do states as well as countries? The answer is that most states are the same size as a county and each state is very different. They have their own dialect, flag, culture, and food; and when families move from state to state, just like when they move from country to country, they keep these things and pass them on to their kids.

Take California, which we did today. I learned today that if California’s economic size were measured by itself compared to other countries, it would rank the 7th largest economy in the world.  We also learned a lot about grapes, wine, movies, and the gold rush. I also got to tell the kids about how my parents moved us to California when I was about p’s age to start a vineyard, but because of red tape and bugs we ended up living by the beach for a year and then moving back to the east coast.

We started the day a bit late with coloring flags.

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Then brunch, the girls tried grapefruit for the first time and really liked it.

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Because of some things going on this weekend, the menu got modified a bit. We cut the cobb salad and the rolls, but kept the rest.

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After Monte Cristo Sandwich, Avocado spread on Sourdough bread and raisins we drove some of the streets on Google maps and talked a bit about the climate and earthquakes. P was very interested in the plate tectonics. Uncle Chris and Chuck did a great job explaining it all to her.

Chuck and p spent the afternoon in true laid back California style.

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What state or country would you like to see us do next?

What happened to the rainbow pound cake?

I finally had time to do something with the the leftover pound cake from last week’s cake (besides taking it to work and letting my coworkers eat it). I mashed it all up and added a bit of butter and made a chocolate pie with a rainbow crust.

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Plus I had enough leftover to make rainbow lemon bars. They did not hold together as well as I would like, but they were very good, and looked very cool.

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